This weekend reminded me how important supportive family members and friends are as we travel down this road.
On Saturday, Adam and I visited friends of ours who welcomed their son into this world one week ago. They've been supportive friends from the beginning of our journey, so it was extra special to see them in full parenting action. Visiting them, hearing their story, and listening to what they've gone through and are going through was such a blessing. They handle each challenge and new excitement together--as they all get used to being a family of three. They, like so many other families we know, encourage me.
Today, I had a day to myself--well, except for the occassional kick or punch from Baby Wilson as if to remind me that I'm not really alone. Adam spent the day driving in snow (it's up to 8 inches now and still snowing) and attended a football game with a friend. I kept busy with cooking, cleaning, and ironing. I started the day with a great conversation about pregnancy with my mom.
I think this conversation set the tone for my day because as I continued with my chores, I thought about all of the support I've received. Whether it be someone sharing an encouraging word, asking about how I'm feeling, calling to hear the latest about Baby Wilson, commenting on a blog post--or just reading my posts, telling me about your pregnancy experiences, letting me borrow maternity clothes, or just keeping in touch--I appreciate everyone's loving and caring support so much!
Pregnancy isn't easy. Obviously, your body changes (which is not always the most comfortable); you never know when you'll overreact (or underreact) due to hormones; all of the relationships that you have change; everyone has an opinion about everything you do or will do; every month brings a new set of tasks that you need to accomplish to prepare for baby; and you get bombarded with new terminology (medical and baby gear terms especially) that you are expected to understand right away.
But having family and friends who you can ask questions of, talk and listen to, or say, "I'm just not ready for X yet" is amazing. So, a big thank you for all of your support.
1 comment:
With both the Grandmothers living close by, and so many friends , you are blessed! Being willing to listen to the advice and consider it( a rare enough thing) shows a true appreciation of people and what they might have to offer....maybe that is why the two of you are so blessed with people who care for you!
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